A Coaching Model By Francesca Lanni, Cancer Patients and Families Coach, MALTA
The Phoenix
Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall. (Confuscious)
As I work on developing my coaching model, I have decided to create a representation that encompasses not just the path my clients will take through my coaching program, but also reflects my essence and identity. The phoenix is a widely recognized symbol of rebirth, revival, and renewal. It represents growth, evolution, and self-transformation. Additionally, it’s often associated with power, reflecting the impact of coaching. In China, the Phoenix symbolizes power and prosperity, while in Japan it signifies the dawn of a new era. In India, this symbolizes the ultimate sages of boundless knowledge.
The PHOENIX Coaching Model
The Phoenix’s motto is “revive from ashes and rise.” To be reborn like a Phoenix, one must first let go of their old self. The experience of transformation can range from being very painful to very liberating, depending on one’s perspective. Releasing the past, overcoming challenges encountered along the way, clearing the clutter, and embracing a fresh start.
Coaching can help facilitate this transformative process. What could be a more fitting name to represent this journey than that of a coach?
The coaching process can be broken down into three parts:
- Energy: the motivation to make a change, which sparks the decision to embark on the coaching journey
- Transformation: the enriching experience of the coaching journey
- Rebirth: the ultimate goal of achieving the desired state.
For each stage of the process, there are specific keywords to keep in mind.
To begin, consider words like change, exploration, and responsibility. During the travel phase, focus on curiosity, acceptance, and experience. Finally, when working towards your goal, prioritize awareness, learning, and action.
By embracing the push to change, you can embark on a journey of rebirth that will help you discover who you truly are. This exploration will lead you to answers about what you want to achieve and what your values and assets are.
- Responsibility is a crucial value that empowers you to take control of your life. The driving force behind finding answers is curiosity, which fuels your journey.
- Acknowledging and accepting your present state is key to transforming your reality. Experience comes from firsthand knowledge gained as you progress on your journey, through self-observation and expressing your desired identity.
- Awareness stems from being present at the moment and attuned to your thoughts and emotions.
When you view reality with a fresh perspective that aligns with your objectives, learning takes place. Action is the energy that enables you to integrate what you’ve learned into new, deliberate, and recurring behaviors, akin to a reflection of your rebirth.
The Phoenix Coaching Model: Profound Transformation
The Phoenix coaching model is designed for clients seeking profound transformation. The Coach offers a safe and non-judgmental space where you can express yourself at every stage of the journey. Your Coach is fully present and trusts in your ability to shape your transformation. This model is ideal for those who want to challenge themselves, dive deep, and commit to taking their personal growth to the next level. It can be adapted to suit anyone who is seeking meaning and purpose, or looking to redefine themselves and start afresh.
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